Tuesday, January 24, 2006

Friday the 13th.. Part I

Normally not a superstitious fellow, I have no qualms about doing things on so called vexed days. I think that superstitions are fun ways to express emotions towards things beyond our control. This last Friday the 13th was to be no different for me, at least so I thought when the day began.

The day started off with the possibility of being a great and adventurous day. My wife’s friend had suggested that a small group of us cross country ski to a Yurt located in Mill Hollow. She made all the proper reservations and we prepared for a couple of days of fun and exercise. At the appointed time we arrived at the trailhead where our trek was to begin. There were twelve of us total, nine adults and three children around the age of ten months old. The resident father figure who accompanied us had rented a snowmobile and the rest of us had skis. This was a great relief for me because that meant some of our supplies could be fastened to sleds and pulled behind the snowmobile. After the packs were safely stowed inside the yurt and a fire lit in the stove, the snowmobile would return down the trail to relieve the weary travelers and ferry them deeper into the wilderness.

The weather matched our spirits, which were both unusually on the bright side, as we made our final preparations. We were a little behind schedule but none of us were worried, it was too beautiful a day to weigh oneself down with unnecessary cares. The sleds were tied onto the back of the snowmobile and off he sped. Meanwhile my wife had noticed that the skis and boots she had borrowed from a relative did not match each other, and no amount of force was going to help. Reluctantly, she walked back to the car where one member of our party just happened to have an extra pair of skis that would work. When she returned some of the group had already begun the expedition and three of us anxiously waited. The skis clipped wonderfully into the bindings and off we went. The first strides went smoothly and then I noticed that something did not feel right. My skis seemed to not be sliding but rather gathering the snow. Soon I had four or five inches of snow caked on the bottom of my skis and efficient movement was impossible. I had no choice but to return to the car and retrieve the pair of skis that my wife had just moments before abandoned. Upon my return the first part of our group was nowhere to be seen. That is when we realized that between the four of us who were left, no one had looked at the map which showed the location of our destination. It couldn’t be that hard to find and assuredly the remainder of our group would wait for us eventually.

For me the next few hours were pure physical torture. I greatly underestimated my physical prowess and it showed accordingly. We were going very slowly up the long windy road, as countless snowmobilers zoomed by. It seemed to me that each machine carried a person who was laughing at my every exerted movement. Nevertheless we pressed on.

Suddenly the father figure appeared triumphantly on his noble steed. My spirits rose and I was not so tired, it wouldn’t last much longer. He halted next to us only to report that he had in fact not yet found our destination, but assured us that he was getting close. And with those words he sped off in the direction that he had come. My spirits yet again sank, and on we trudged.

The sun sunk behind the mountain, our valley became encased in shadow and the temperature began to drop. It was at this moment that I believe we began to fear. Not necessarily for us but for the two babies who were being packed on our backs like sacks of potatoes. Surely our location was not much further, and we still had a couple hours of daylight left, before we were engulfed in the blackness of night. We continued up the slopes.

The four of us chatted uncomfortably as we went, avoiding the obvious topics that were at hand. Two of our group appeared behind us; they had taken a wrong turn, and were now on the right path. I took this opportunity to ask for some directions to the yurt, which were given. Look for a guard station, a wooden sign and orange poles. The orange poles mark the path off the road for two miles to the yurt. At last we had some direction. Our friends soon disappeared as they sped off ahead of us. (It was at this point that I was eternally grateful to my group of companions for not leaving me, even though they had the speed to do so.)

Two painful hours later we arrived at the guard station and spotted a wooden sign, and the orange pole. The moon was full and bright, the air was steadily chilling, we were cold tired, and worried. The children were quiet and all seemed still. We discussed turning around and heading for the trailhead. Protect the children and ourselves, surely the others would understand. We had a decision to make and not a lot of time to make it, every minute it was growing colder and our hopes were sinking. What to do…..

Friday, December 16, 2005

It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year.....

I love the Christmas season. For me it's so fun to try to find the perfect present for those that are special in your life, and to watch the expressions on their faces when they open it. I love the lights, the sights and the smells, Christmas is just normally a good time of year for me. This last Saturday night I began getting a sniffle and a sore throat. Sunday it became an all out nose turned into a dripping facuet, body aching full blown cold. So do I do the sensible thing and sleep all day, nope, not me because I have wonderfully procrastinated my final project which just happens to be due on Monday at noon. So all day Sunday and into the wee hours of Monday morning I slave away. I grab a few hours of sleep and return to my diligence early Monday as I call in sick to work. Anyway to make a long, agonizing story shorter, it is now Friday morning. Having worked the rest of the week and thank goodness for all kinds of drugs I made it to Friday. Now here I sit, nose faucet still in place with a deep walrus sounding cough.(At least the glass swallowing sore throat has stopped) Poor me right. Actually the point of this blog was not to complain but as I wallowed in my own misery I could not help but notice that many others around me are suffering the same fate. My son has ear infections and eye infections, my wife isn't feeling well and her whole family, is currently suffering from all different kinds of ailments. It's enough to make me say bah Humbug! This time of year is no fun. I hope that all of you have missed the creepy crawling bugs of the winter season.


Now that I have rambled and complained I must say that I am still rather enjoying the Christmas spirit. As I gaze into the twinkling lights of our humble, but elegant christmas tree, I think all is not lost. Life is what I will make of it. So to all three of you that will read this, I say to you Merry Christmas, or whatever your respective holiday greetings may be.

Friday, October 28, 2005

Feeling Special on Someone Else's Special Day

The other day I had the opportunity to attend the wedding of one of my best friends. The whole shabang was amazing. I got to hang out with some of my friends and see two of the people that I most care about on their special day. The best thing about the entire day was after the wedding luncheon. The bride and groom stood up and declared that they kept the luncheon to an intimate group of people for a reason. On their happiest day, they wanted to only share it those they feel they really love and know. Then they annouced that they had a gift for us. They proceeded to hand out handwritten cards to everyone present. Written upon these cards was a personal note to each individual, explaining why he/she is a special person to the bride/groom. After reading the card, it made me feel special on their day. This to me was an amazing gesture of kindness and love. After pondering this gesture I have realized just how important it is to express to others around you exactly what role they play in your life, it may change them forever, or at least make them feel special for at least one day.

Saturday, September 24, 2005

Do you ever wonder

Do you ever wonder, why you waste time, when you have a million and a half things to do. Is it because anything else is better than what I am supposed to be doing? I don't really know.